Soulmates – it’s a term thrown around quite a bit. But do we only have one in our lifetime?
In my opinion, not necessarily. And who am I? Tina Fey, founder of the Love Connection blog and your go-to relationship advisor.
In fact, many signs may point to the possibility that you have more than one soulmate. It’s a fascinating thought, isn’t it?
In this piece, I’m going to break down those signs for you.
Through my expertise in relationships, I’ll guide you in recognizing these potential soulmates that may already be playing a significant role in your life.
So lean in, open your heart, and let’s explore this together.
After all, love is not just about finding The One, it’s about recognizing all the Ones meant to enrich your journey.
1) Recurring themes in relationships
We often find ourselves drawn to certain types of people. It’s not uncommon to notice recurring themes in our relationships.
You know, those characteristics or experiences that just seem to keep popping up?
Well, that’s not just a coincidence.
According to my years of experience as a relationship expert, this could be a sign that you have more than one soulmate.
These recurring themes may be pointing you towards the different soulmates that exist in your life.
Soulmates aren’t just romantic partners. They can also be friends or family members who deeply resonate with you, helping you grow and understand yourself better.
2) Intense connections
You know that feeling when you meet someone for the first time, but it feels like you’ve known them forever? That’s an intense connection, and it’s something I’ve experienced myself.
These connections are often inexplicably deep and instantaneous. It’s like you understand each other without needing to say a word. You ‘click’, as they say.
This, dear reader, could be a sign of another soulmate in your life.
As the renowned poet Maya Angelou once said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
Your soulmates have the unique ability to make you feel seen, heard and truly understood – often from the moment you meet them.
So don’t discount those intense connections. They might be pointing you towards another soulmate.
3) Growth and transformation
One of the most profound signs that you have more than one soulmate is the way they influence your personal growth and transformation.
In my own life, I’ve noticed that the people I connect with on a soulmate level often challenge me, help me learn, and provoke change within me.
In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I dive deeper into how healthy relationships should foster growth and independence.
Your soulmates, whether they’re romantic partners, friends, or family members, will inspire you to be the best version of yourself.
They’ll stand by you as you navigate through life’s ups and downs, encouraging you to grow and evolve.
4) Discomfort and disagreements
Now, this might seem counterintuitive but bear with me. Discomfort and disagreements can actually be signs of a soulmate connection. Yes, you read that right.
In my experience, soulmates are not always about comfort and ease. Sometimes, they’re the people who push your buttons and challenge your beliefs.
They make you question, reassess, and ultimately grow.
You see, soulmates aren’t there just to make you feel good all the time. They’re in your life to help shape you into your highest self, even if that process is uncomfortable at times.
So next time you find yourself in a heated debate or feeling a bit uncomfortable with someone close to you, take a step back.
This could be a sign of a deeper soulmate connection at work – one that is helping you evolve and grow into the person you’re meant to be.
5) Shared dreams and goals
Another sign that you might have multiple soulmates is when you share similar dreams and goals with someone.
I’ve found this in my own life with people who are on the same path as me or who have the same aspirations.
It’s like we’re travelling in the same direction, supporting and encouraging each other along the way.
It’s a beautiful journey of mutual growth and understanding.
Your soulmate should inspire you to reach your fullest potential.
They’re someone who understands your dreams and supports you in achieving them. This shared vision can be a powerful sign of a soulmate connection.
6) Unconditional love in the face of flaws
Let’s get real here. Nobody’s perfect. We all have our quirks and flaws that make us uniquely human. And your soulmates? They’ll see these imperfections and love you anyway.
This is a raw, honest sign of a soulmate connection – unconditional love in the face of our flaws.
They’re the ones who see our messiness and say, “I’m still here.”
Your soulmates understand that you’re a work in progress, just like they are. They don’t expect perfection but appreciate you for who you truly are, flaws and all.
7) They make you feel at home
There’s a special kind of comfort that comes with meeting a soulmate. It’s a feeling I’ve experienced, and it’s like coming home after a long journey.
Your soulmates are the people who make you feel at ease, where you can be your authentic self without the fear of judgement.
They create a space of acceptance and love that feels safe and welcoming.
So those people in your life who make you feel ‘at home’, who accept you just as you are?
They could very well be one of your soulmates, offering you the unconditional love and acceptance that defines a true soulmate connection.
8) They challenge you
This is a raw truth that some might find uncomfortable – soulmates are not always easy.
They challenge you, push you out of your comfort zone, and sometimes, they can even trigger your deepest insecurities.
But here’s the honest truth – this is often a sign of a deep, soulmate connection. They’re not here to make your life difficult, but to help you grow and evolve.
Your soulmates will hold up a mirror, showing you your strengths and weaknesses, your fears and desires.
They challenge you because they see your potential and want you to achieve it.
Final thoughts
Recognizing the signs of a soulmate isn’t always easy, but it’s a beautiful journey of self-discovery and love.
These connections enrich our lives, teaching us about ourselves and the world around us.
Remember, soulmates aren’t just romantic partners. They can be friends, family members, or anyone who deeply resonates with us.
They challenge us, love us unconditionally, and inspire us to reach our fullest potential.
In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I further explore relationships and how to nurture healthy connections.
As you journey through life, keep an open heart and mind. Your soulmates could be closer than you think.
