8 cliche phrases that make you sound unoriginal instead of intelligent, says psychology
It’s easy to think that using certain phrases makes you sound wise, insightful, or even persuasive.
We hear them all the time—from colleagues, mentors, and even in countless motivational speeches. They seem polished, effortless, and full of meaning.
But the truth? Some of these phrases don’t make you sound intelligent or original at all. In …
The art of persuasion: 6 underrated tricks for winning people over
Persuasion isn’t just about convincing someone to see things your way. It’s also about connecting with people on a deeper level and making them feel genuinely heard.
I learned this lesson the hard way in my early days of marketing, when I realized that rattling off data points rarely won hearts or changed minds.
Over …
7 behaviors of people who are effortlessly respected by everyone, according to psychology
I remember one of my earliest days in a new workplace: I was excited, nervous, and desperately hoping to make a good impression.
There was a senior colleague who had this natural aura—everyone seemed to respect her without question.
No one was kissing up to her, and she wasn’t throwing her weight around, but when …
8 common phrases to ban from your vocab if you want to come across as a classy, sophisticated person
Ever feel like the way you speak might be holding you back from exuding true class and sophistication?
Words have power. The phrases you use every day shape how others perceive you—whether as polished and refined or, well… not so much.
The good news? A few simple tweaks to your vocabulary can instantly elevate the …
If you really want to stand out at work, say goodbye to these 7 tiny habits
We’ve all heard that standing out at work often comes down to going the extra mile—arriving early, being proactive in meetings, and tackling tough projects head-on.
These things have their place, sure. But in my experience as a relationship expert and writer, it’s often the “tiny” everyday habits that can quietly undermine your credibility and …
7 little-known psychological tricks socially intelligent people use to make a great first impression (that you can use, too)
You know that feeling when you meet someone, and they just get you instantly?
They make you feel comfortable, heard, and genuinely interested—all without seeming like they’re trying too hard.
That’s not luck. That’s social intelligence.
The most socially savvy people use subtle psychological tricks to leave a lasting impression, whether in job interviews, first …
If you want to attract high-paying clients, follow these 7 golden rules for success
I still remember the early days of my career when I was juggling multiple side gigs, trying to figure out how to stand out in a crowded market.
I’d put my all into each project, but somehow I’d end up attracting clients who haggled over every penny.
It felt like a never-ending uphill battle, and …
Here are 8 things you should always keep private when at work, according to experts
Workplaces are social environments, but that doesn’t mean everything about your life should be an open book. Sure, building connections with colleagues is important—but oversharing the wrong details can backfire.
There’s a fine line between being authentic and revealing too much. Some things are best kept private, not just to maintain professionalism but also to …
7 lessons from “How To Win Friends And Influence People” that have made me a classier and more refined communicator
I remember the first time I picked up Dale Carnegie’s classic. I was fresh out of a particularly unproductive argument with someone I cared about, and I felt awful. How to Win Friends and Influence People was exactly the lifeline I needed.
Over the years, I’ve revisited it time and again, and each read offers …
People in their 60s who do these 10 things are thriving more than 98% people their age
Age isn’t the headline—it’s the fine print. The way someone lives their age tells you so much more than the number on their birth certificate.
Over the years, I’ve met people in their 60s who seem to radiate something special. It’s not just their health or energy—it’s their outlook.
They’re thriving in ways that make …