Author: Tina Fey

I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.
Confidence & Appearance

8 subtle ways to appear more self-assured in any situation, according to psychology

Confidence is one of those things that people assume you either have or you don’t.

But the truth is, appearing self-assured isn’t about being born with some unshakable sense of certainty. It’s not about faking it, either.

It’s about small, intentional shifts in the way you carry yourself—subtle cues that signal to the world (and …

Relationships & Personal Growth

If a man wants to be more than friends, he’ll usually display these behaviors (according to a psychologist)

Navigating the world of dating and relationships can be like trying to decipher a mysterious foreign language. As a relationship expert and founder of the Love Connection blog, I’ve seen the confusion first hand.

Often, we find ourselves questioning if a man wants to be more than friends. It’s a tricky business, but believe it …

Relationships & Personal Growth

If you’ve been through these experiences, you’re far more resilient and stronger than the average person

People often assume that strength comes from never struggling. That the most resilient people are the ones who have had it easy, gliding through life without setbacks.

But in reality, true strength is built through challenges. It’s not about avoiding hardship—it’s about facing it, learning from it, and coming out the other side even stronger.…

Relationships & Personal Growth

Women who grew up with emotionally cold mothers often develop these 7 traits later in life

Our childhood shapes us in more ways than we realize.

When a mother is emotionally cold or distant, her child learns to navigate the world differently—often in ways that carry into adulthood.

Instead of warmth and reassurance, these women grow up adapting, protecting themselves, and figuring things out on their own.

Over time, this can …

Relationships & Personal Growth

7 little-known red flags to watch out for when choosing your life partner

When it comes to choosing a life partner, most people focus on the obvious green flags—shared values, mutual respect, good communication.

But what about the subtle red flags that don’t scream “problem” at first but slowly chip away at your happiness over time?

I’ve seen too many people ignore these little warning signs, only to …

Relationships & Personal Growth

If someone often does these 7 things in public, they have almost zero social awareness

Have you ever been out in public and noticed someone doing something so oblivious that you couldn’t help but cringe?

It’s one thing to make the occasional social misstep—we all do. But some people seem completely unaware of how their behavior affects those around them.

The truth is, social awareness isn’t just about being polite. …

Relationships & Personal Growth

If someone often brings up these 8 topics in conversation, they lack social awareness

Some people just get social situations.

They know what to say, when to say it, and—just as importantly—what to avoid.

Others? Not so much.

We’ve all been in conversations where someone brings up a topic that instantly makes things awkward.

Maybe it’s oversharing personal details, constantly bragging, or steering every discussion back to themselves.

Whatever …

Relationships & Personal Growth

My husband is my best friend, but over time our romantic spark has faded. A therapist recommended these tips and it’s completely revived our relationship.

Before we got married, my husband and I couldn’t get enough of each other. We’d stay up talking for hours, plan spontaneous weekend getaways, and find any excuse to be close.

Over time, though, the excitement faded. Life settled into a routine—work, errands, responsibilities—and while we still loved each other deeply, something was missing. The …

Relationships & Personal Growth

If you grew up without a loving mother figure, you might relate to these 7 experiences

Not everyone has a tender memory of a comforting hug or a familiar voice cheering them on unconditionally. 

Some of us grew up missing that motherly warmth—whether because of absence, emotional distance, or complicated family dynamics.

Instead of having a safe place to land when life got rough, we had to learn how to cope …