Author: Tina Fey

I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.
Relationships & Personal Growth

8 morning habits of people who become more disciplined as they get older

Discipline isn’t something you’re just born with—it’s something you build over time. And for many people, that growth starts in the morning.

The way you begin your day sets the tone for everything that follows. Some people hit snooze, rush through their routine, and feel like they’re playing catch-up all day. Others? They use their …

Brand Identity & Self-Discovery

Parents who raise emotionally strong daughters almost always avoid these 9 common mistakes

Parents often ask me how they can raise confident, resilient, and emotionally healthy daughters—young women who can navigate life’s hurdles with self-assurance and courage. It’s a topic close to my heart, and over the years,

I’ve noticed patterns in what strong, empathetic, and compassionate parents do. Equally telling is what they choose not to do. …

Relationships & Personal Growth

7 signs your personality is way more impressive than you give yourself credit for

Ever feel like you’re just… ordinary? Like there’s nothing particularly special about you, even though people seem to enjoy your company?

Here’s the truth—your personality might be way more impressive than you think.

We often downplay our own strengths, assuming that if something comes naturally to us, it must not be a big deal. But …

Communication & NetworkingRelationships & Personal Growth

The art of persuasion: 5 simple strategies socially intelligent people use to influence and inspire others

Have you ever met someone who could capture a room with just a few words? 

That’s the beauty of socially intelligent persuasion—it’s not about manipulating people or shoving our ideas down their throats. It’s about inspiring genuine connection, building trust, and leaving people feeling better than before.

I’ve spent years studying relationship dynamics and counseling …

Relationships & Personal Growth

7 things truly decent men do differently in relationships

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to stand out as genuinely supportive, empathetic partners? 

I see it in my practice all the time: there are certain individuals—particularly men—who break the mold by embodying care, honesty, and emotional maturity in their relationships. 

They’re not perfect, but the way they engage with their significant others …

Relationships & Personal Growth

7 signs you’re not antisocial, you just value deep connections

Some people love big social gatherings, constant small talk, and being surrounded by acquaintances. But if you crave meaningful conversations and truly connecting with others, you might start to wonder—am I antisocial?

The truth is, that valuing deep connections doesn’t mean you dislike people. It just means you prefer quality over quantity when it comes …

Communication & NetworkingConfidence & AppearanceRelationships & Personal Growth

7 powerful body language hacks that instantly make you look charismatic and authoritative

I’ve always believed that our bodies often speak louder than our words. 

It’s something I’ve seen countless times in my counseling practice, whether I’m working with couples trying to reconnect or professionals hoping to leave a better impression at work.

You can say the most brilliant thing, but if your posture and gestures don’t match …

Communication & NetworkingRelationships & Personal Growth

6 phrases socially intelligent people use to disagree without causing offense

We’ve all been there—wanting to express a different opinion but dreading the possibility of coming off as rude, dismissive, or confrontational. 

Socially intelligent people, however, have a way of handling disagreements with grace. They know how to challenge ideas without making the other person feel attacked.

How do they do it? It all comes down …

Relationships & Personal Growth

Research says this one thing is the best dating strategy you can make

There’s a ton of dating advice out there: from meticulously curated first-date outfits to guidelines on how many hours you should wait before sending that next text. 

Not to mention all the so-called “power moves,” like playing hard to get or using pre-planned witty one-liners to look confident.

But new research offers something surprising—and maybe …

Relationships & Personal Growth

People who become intolerable to be around as they get older usually display these 7 behaviors

We all know someone who seems to get more and more challenging to be around with each passing year. 

Maybe it’s that old high-school friend who always complains about everything, or a coworker who never has anything nice to say about anyone. 

Sometimes, I even catch myself wondering if I’m turning into that person when …