Author: Tina Fey

I've ridden the rails, gone off track and lost my train of thought. I'm writing to try and find it again. Hope you enjoy the journey with me.
Relationships & Personal Growth

8 ways intelligent introverts see the world differently to everyone else, says psychology

Ever find yourself fascinated by how some people can sit quietly in a crowded room yet still command a magnetic presence? 

I’ve always been intrigued by individuals who don’t need the loudest voice to stand out. A fair number of those folks, in my experience, identify as introverts—but not just any introverts. 

They’re often the …

Relationships & Personal Growth

10 phrases high-level communicators love to use, according to psychology

Some people just have a way with words. They speak, and others listen. They connect effortlessly, make their points clearly, and leave a lasting impression.

What’s their secret? It’s not just confidence—it’s the words they choose. High-level communicators understand that certain phrases can build trust, encourage collaboration, and make conversations more impactful.

And the best …

Relationships & Personal Growth

8 behaviors of men who never truly felt loved by their fathers growing up, says psychology

When a guy yells, you think he’s mad. When he’s quiet, you figure he’s upset. Those are the basics, right?

But the human psyche is a labyrinth, not a straight path. Especially when it comes to understanding men who’ve grown up feeling unloved by their fathers.

A tricky topic, no doubt.

However, psychology sheds light …

Relationships & Personal Growth

7 signs you’re dealing with a man who’s mentally weak and easily pushed around

Some men exude confidence and resilience, while others seem to crumble under the slightest pressure.

The difference? Mental strength.

A mentally weak man is easily pushed around—he avoids conflict, struggles to make decisions, and lets others dictate his actions. Instead of standing firm in his values, he seeks approval at any cost.

Recognizing these traits …

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If you really want to stand out at work, say goodbye to these 7 tiny habits

We’ve all heard that standing out at work often comes down to going the extra mile—arriving early, being proactive in meetings, and tackling tough projects head-on. 

These things have their place, sure. But in my experience as a relationship expert and writer, it’s often the “tiny” everyday habits that can quietly undermine your credibility and …

Communication & NetworkingConfidence & AppearanceRelationships & Personal Growth

7 little-known psychological tricks socially intelligent people use to make a great first impression (that you can use, too)

You know that feeling when you meet someone, and they just get you instantly? 

They make you feel comfortable, heard, and genuinely interested—all without seeming like they’re trying too hard.

That’s not luck. That’s social intelligence.

The most socially savvy people use subtle psychological tricks to leave a lasting impression, whether in job interviews, first …

Relationships & Personal Growth

10 situations at work where the best thing to do is remain silent, according to psychology

Silence is underrated—especially at work. We often feel pressure to speak up, share our opinions, or fill awkward pauses. But sometimes, saying nothing is actually the smartest move.

Psychology tells us that staying silent in certain situations can help us maintain professionalism, build stronger relationships, and avoid unnecessary conflict. Knowing when to hold back can …