A New Job Under Your Tree?

If you could get the gift you REALLY want, then Santa would eat your plate of cookies after he dropped your dream job under the tree. (If the tree isn’t your thing, just insert whatever symbol of your faith or spiritual practice you’re celebrating).

Of course, when you wrote your gift wish list – you jotted down that job you really wanted, didn’t you? Let’s say it’s your ideal job or career, which:

  • Leverages your education
  • Rapidly pays off your student loans 😉
  • Captivates your imagination
  • Continues to train and develop your skills
  • Provides a real challenge to stretch you
  • Delivers a career path with a solid trajectory
  • Sets you among people you like and admire
  • Isn’t too bad a commute, and
  • Is a blast because there’s free food, paint ball,  accordion lessons (or whatever it is that you find fun)

Add to the list and remove what doesn’t thrill you. But, seriously of what you want for your next job or to jump start your career!

Why? Because you cannot find what you are NOT looking for. And, if you are not looking for exactly what you want: do you know the consequences? You will not find the job  you want.  It’s that simple. The job or career you want is out here among the people in your network. Yes, some of us in your network know about that job or career. We just don’t know that you want it – because you’ve kept it a secret. Or you’ve been vague. Or you haven’t taken the time to fill in the details that would help us put the job on our radar.

We – like Santa (or your celebrant-in-charge) – cannot give you what you want, if

  1. You don’t know what you want.
  2. Don’t tell us what you want.
  3. You let us define you.

Tell us the industries or companies, where you yearn to spend your next several income-earning years. Or describe them by:

  • Size
  • Culture
  • Product line
  • Geographic location
  • Customer type
  • Deal size
Picture of Nance Rosen

Nance Rosen

Nance Rosen is the author of Speak Up! & Succeed. She speaks to business audiences around the world and is a resource for press, including print, broadcast and online journalists and bloggers covering social media and careers.

TRENDING AROUND THE WEB

Why we say one thing and mean another — the linguistics and cognition of the intent–expression gap

Why we say one thing and mean another — the linguistics and cognition of the intent–expression gap

Global English Editing

The people arguing about WordPress went quiet in 2026 and the problems that caused the argument are still there

The people arguing about WordPress went quiet in 2026 and the problems that caused the argument are still there

The Blog Herald

I have interviewed 60 adult children of emotionally difficult parents, and the sadness that kept coming up was not that their parents failed them — it was that they still kept hoping they would change

I have interviewed 60 adult children of emotionally difficult parents, and the sadness that kept coming up was not that their parents failed them — it was that they still kept hoping they would change

The Blog Herald

Adult children who stop sharing good news with their parents are not always bitter — sometimes they are protecting one happy thing from being minimized

Adult children who stop sharing good news with their parents are not always bitter — sometimes they are protecting one happy thing from being minimized

The Blog Herald

Writers who over-explain their credentials in every post may not be building authority — for some readers, it quietly signals the opposite

Writers who over-explain their credentials in every post may not be building authority — for some readers, it quietly signals the opposite

The Blog Herald

Loving someone and being good for each other are two things that sometimes happen at the same time — and sometimes never do

Loving someone and being good for each other are two things that sometimes happen at the same time — and sometimes never do

The Vessel