To Sell or Not To Sell – Why?

What motivates you to buy?

“John” was having difficulty converting his warm prospects into clients so I was asked to observe for areas where improvement may be made. The best place to begin for reviewing any sales process is to think about what motivates you to buy. Generally speaking the same will be true for your intended clientele.

Most likely the answers include:
– You like the person selling
– You have a need for what is being offered
– You trust the salesperson because he understood your personal motivation

As one qualified prospect after another met with John, they were greeted with genuine kindness and enthusiasm but the relationship building stopped there. The question as to why the potential client agreed to meet was never asked. John did not seek to find where their initial interest might be or if they had any familiarity with the company or products offered. These omissions prevented gaining any insight on the people or what their individual needs might be.

By asking questions throughout the meeting, you are more easily able to develop a trusting relationship because it demonstrates your concern for the client-to-be. The questions also develop a two-way dialogue versus simply telling-selling, and unfortunately, the latter is what I observed.

Are you aware that people learn in 3’s? Once you know where your prospect’s interests lie, it is best to present only three options upfront. More than that will confuse people. Overly exuberant, John was focusing on 6 and 7 possibilities for each. And because he covered so much information, John rushed through each brochure never stopping to make certain it was understood or if the person opposite him was even interested.

It was evident those in front of him had a difficult time listening to all of his input, as helpful as it might have been. Instead of agreeing to any of his offers, most chose to walk away with the brochures instead. “Walk away” are the key words for what transpired that day.

There is a very important reason why seasoned sales professionals ask questions of their potential clients. As the right questions are asked in the correct order, your prospect begins to agree with what you have to say. One of the first questions is to ask where their interest lies so that you may first address what is of most importance to them. Can you think of anyone who would not be appreciative of this? This is the first step to building the relationship and the trust.

The goal is to acquire 3-5 mini agreements with what you have to say. Gradually, your prospects begin to see the value of your offer and will talk themselves into buying from you. Having skipped this process, John had a difficult time that day. Likewise, some of his prospects skipped out the door.

The end result is when you strive to understand your prospect’s perspective first, you will encourage larger sales, repeat business, referrals and testimonials – all of which will put you on the wave of the Smooth Sale!

Author:

Elinor Stutz, CEO of Smooth Sale, (800) 704-1499; was designated as a “Top 25 Sales Influencer for 2012.” Elinor authored the International Best-Selling book, “Nice Girls DO Get the Sale: Relationship Building That Gets Results”, Sourcebooks and best selling, “HIRED! How to Use Sales Techniques to Sell Yourself On Interviews”, Career Press.

Picture of Elinor Stutz

Elinor Stutz

Elinor Stutz, CEO of Smooth Sale, was honored by Open View Labs with inclusion in their international list of “Top 25 Sales Influencers for 2012.” Elinor authored the International Best-Selling book, “Nice Girls DO Get the Sale: Relationship Building That Gets Results”, Sourcebooks and the best selling career book, “HIRED! How to Use Sales Techniques to Sell Yourself On Interviews”, Career Press. She provides team sales training, private coaching and highly acclaimed inspirational keynotes for conferences. Elinor is available for consultation. Kred ranks Stutz as a Top 1% influencer; CEO World Magazine named Stutz as one of “The brightest sales minds to follow on Twitter”. She speaks and consults worldwide.

TRENDING AROUND THE WEB

Eye tracking research on how people actually read web pages found that most visitors scan in a rough F shaped pattern down the left side of the screen, which is why professional editors front load the real information instead of slowly building up to it

Eye tracking research on how people actually read web pages found that most visitors scan in a rough F shaped pattern down the left side of the screen, which is why professional editors front load the real information instead of slowly building up to it

The Blog Herald

Harvard researchers had 166 undergraduates rate their own pets on qualities like thoughtful, considerate and sympathetic, and the students who felt most chronically disconnected from other people scored their pets meaningfully higher on exactly those three traits, and no others.

Harvard researchers had 166 undergraduates rate their own pets on qualities like thoughtful, considerate and sympathetic, and the students who felt most chronically disconnected from other people scored their pets meaningfully higher on exactly those three traits, and no others.

Global English Editing

A large-scale field study using real-world healthcare data found no measurable evidence that medical professionals make worse decisions as their workday wears on, directly contradicting one of the most frequently repeated claims in modern popular psychology writing

A large-scale field study using real-world healthcare data found no measurable evidence that medical professionals make worse decisions as their workday wears on, directly contradicting one of the most frequently repeated claims in modern popular psychology writing

The Blog Herald

University of Arizona researchers wired 79 people with a recorder sampling conversations every 12.5 minutes for four days and found the happiest had twice as many substantive conversations and a third as much small talk as the unhappiest, suggesting the discomfort was never a social deficit.

University of Arizona researchers wired 79 people with a recorder sampling conversations every 12.5 minutes for four days and found the happiest had twice as many substantive conversations and a third as much small talk as the unhappiest, suggesting the discomfort was never a social deficit.

Global English Editing

A landmark study found that Catholic nuns who wrote sparse, simple autobiographies in their early twenties, when they entered the convent in the 1930s, were far more likely to develop Alzheimer’s disease roughly six decades later, with about 80 percent of the low-complexity writers eventually developing the disease compared to only 10 percent of those whose youthful essays were dense with ideas

A landmark study found that Catholic nuns who wrote sparse, simple autobiographies in their early twenties, when they entered the convent in the 1930s, were far more likely to develop Alzheimer’s disease roughly six decades later, with about 80 percent of the low-complexity writers eventually developing the disease compared to only 10 percent of those whose youthful essays were dense with ideas

Global English Editing

Researchers reported in 2026 that they could plant a specific unsolved puzzle into a person’s dreams during REM sleep, and volunteers who dreamed about that puzzle were measurably more likely to solve it after waking up than volunteers who did not

Researchers reported in 2026 that they could plant a specific unsolved puzzle into a person’s dreams during REM sleep, and volunteers who dreamed about that puzzle were measurably more likely to solve it after waking up than volunteers who did not

The Blog Herald