Author: Lucas Graham

Lucas Graham, based in Auckland, writes about the psychology behind everyday decisions and life choices. His perspective is grounded in the belief that understanding oneself is the key to better decision-making. Lucas’s articles are a mix of personal anecdotes and observations, offering readers relatable and down-to-earth advice.
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8 signs someone can be too intelligent for their own good, according to psychology

Intelligence is often seen as an asset, but when taken to extremes, it can lead to unintended challenges.

Highly intelligent individuals sometimes overthink, struggle to connect with others, or set unrealistically high standards for themselves.

These traits can create barriers to happiness and fulfillment, despite their intellectual capabilities.

According to psychology, here are eight signs …

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If you a man displays these 9 behaviors, he has a tendency to feel inferior (without even realizing it)

Inferiority complex — it’s a term we often hear, yet its implications are far-reaching and deep-seated. It’s more than just feeling ‘less than’ or ‘not good enough’.

It’s about how a man perceives himself, his capabilities, and his worth in comparison to others.

Psychologically speaking, a man may have an underlying sense of inferiority without …

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8 subtle behaviors of people who aren’t selfish enough in life

There’s a fine line between being selfless and being too self-sacrificing.

This line often gets blurred when we’re too caught up in putting others before ourselves.

It’s not about becoming a selfish person, but about understanding the importance of self-care and setting boundaries.

Being too selfless can lead to burnout, emotional exhaustion, and feeling unappreciated.…

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7 subtle habits of people who don’t genuinely feel they’re deserving of success

There’s a thin line between feeling humble and feeling undeserving.

The distinction is in belief. Believing you’re humble is acknowledging your accomplishments without arrogance. Believing you’re undeserving, however, is dismissing your achievements and success.

Often, those who don’t feel deserving have subtle habits that represent their mindset. They might not be easy to spot, but …