Author: Isabelle Chase

Isabella Chase, a New York City native, writes about the complexities of modern life and relationships. Her articles draw from her experiences navigating the vibrant and diverse social landscape of the city. Isabella’s insights are about finding harmony in the chaos and building strong, authentic connections in a fast-paced world.
Relationships & Personal Growth

If you recognize these 8 behaviors, you may be unintentionally acting like a bully

We often hear about bullies, but we rarely stop to think if we might be one ourselves, even unintentionally.

The difference lies in self-awareness. Bullying is about dominating and overpowering others, often without realizing the impact of our actions.

Sometimes, our behaviors might come off as bullying when that was never the intent. To avoid …

Relationships & Personal Growth

8 subtle ways people sabotage themselves when they are not feeling great

The line between self-care and self-sabotage can be thinner than we like to admit. Especially when we’re feeling low, it’s all too easy to slip into habits that far from helping us, actually hinder our wellbeing.

While we might think we’re doing what’s needed to feel better, sometimes, we’re subtly sabotaging ourselves without even noticing.…

Relationships & Personal Growth

If you use these 8 phrases regularly you are likely to be an introvert

Introverts often speak a different language than those around them, and I’m not just talking about being quiet.

It’s about choice words and phrases that truly reflect their personalities. Regular usage of these phrases can be a sign that you’re an introvert.

The following are eight of such phrases, which, if you use them frequently, …

Relationships & Personal Growth

People who grew up with an absence of total love and care usually display these 8 traits

The environment we grow up in shapes us more than we may realize. Especially when that environment lacks total love and care.

Growing up without these essential elements can leave lasting imprints on a person’s personality. They often develop certain traits, some of which might surprise you.

From my own observation and studies, I have …

Confidence & Appearance

People who have a difficult time trusting in a relationship usually had these 7 life experiences

Trust – it’s a vital ingredient in the recipe for a successful relationship, yet for some, it feels like an elusive commodity.

You see, trust isn’t just about believing that your partner won’t cheat or lie to you. It’s about feeling secure, knowing that they have your back and will protect your vulnerabilities.

But for …

Relationships & Personal Growth

If you want to be more assertive say goodbye to these 8 habits

Assertiveness isn’t about domineering, it’s about clear communication. It’s expressing your views while respecting others’ too.

But sometimes, certain ingrained habits can undermine our assertiveness, causing us to regress into passivity or escalate into aggression.

I’m here to share with you eight such habits that you might need to bid adieu to. So if you’re …

Relationships & Personal Growth

8 actionable ways to expose yourself to different perspectives

Understanding different perspectives can greatly enrich our lives and broaden our horizons. However, stepping out of our comfort zone can be challenging.

The key is to willingly and actively seek out these differing viewpoints. Thankfully, there are practical steps we can take to expose ourselves to different perspectives.

In this article, I’ll share 8 actionable …

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If a man displays these 10 relationship behaviors, he’s still not healed from his ex

You’re out to dinner with your partner, having a light-hearted conversation, when suddenly he casually mentions something his ex used to do.

It’s not the first time he’s done this, and while it doesn’t seem intentional, you can’t help but feel a twinge of doubt.

Is it normal for him to occasionally talk about someone …